Jennifer Lopez is leaning on Leah Remini in the wake of her divorce and a source exclusively tells In Touch the anti-Scientology crusader is giving her old friend tons of advice about rebuilding her life top to bottom – AND grinding Ben Affleck’s nose into the dirt.

Given that the Kevin Can Wait alum and her estranged husband’s daughter is 20 years old, child support won’t play into the proceedings. According to the documents, the longtime couple — who were together for 28 years total — separated on August 1 of this year.

Jennifer Lopez and Leah Remini have reportedly reconnected, putting aside their longtime feud as they both go through their divorces.