There is one person in the group that I have been consistently close with over the many years. The other two I did not and there was a more than 15-year gap in our friendships when I moved away. The problem is that I have outgrown those two.

These two always insist that we get together as a group four times a year, usually around birthdays. It is always a headache trying to coordinate schedules. They’re very difficult to deal with and inflexible with their schedules but insist on these get-togethers.

I have a group of three girlfriends from middle school/high school. We stayed close during college and were in each other’s weddings, etc. I have known these women for more than 50 years. There is one person in the group that I have been consistently close with over the many years.

I have a group of three girlfriends from middle school/high school. We stayed close during college and were in each other’s weddings, etc. I have known these women for more than 50